WOMEN IN RELATIONSHIPS

TO ALL THE WOMEN OUT THERE. WHEN YOU MEET SOMEONE AND FALL IN LOVE, STAY TRUE TO YOURSELF. IN ALL MY YEARS, I HAVE WATCHED SOME WOMEN CHANGE FOR THE ONE THEY ARE WITH. AFTER AWHILE THE OTHER PERSON MAY SAY THAT YOU DON’T NEED YOUR FRIENDS, YOU JUST NEED ME. THEN AFTER TIME, IT MAY BECOME FAMILY THAT THEY MIGHT SAY THAT THEY ARE YOUR FAMILY AND YOU DON’T NEED ANYONE ELSE. ARE THEY GOING TO EVENTUALLY TELL YOU THAT YOU DON’T NEED GOD IN YOUR LIFE ANYMORE. IF THEY DON’T LIKE WHO YOU WERE WHEN THEY FIRST MET YOU, THEN TELL THEM TO GO FIND THAT PERSON THEY ARE LOOKING FOR. SOME RELATIONSHIPS BECOME LIKE THIS EARLY AND FAST SO YOU KNOW THAT IT NEEDS TO END. THEN OTHERS ARE A LITTLE PIECE AT A TIME

UNTIL YOU CAN’T RECOGNIZE YOURSELF ANYMORE. IS YOUR SMILE FADING. HAS YOUR JOY, FAITH, AND LOVE JUST BECOMING A MEMORY. THEN GIVE YOURSELF TIME FOR YOU TO FOCUS ON WHAT HAS HAPPENED. SEARCH THE BIBLE FOR ANSWERS AND FOR GOD’S GUIDANCE. MAYBE IT’S TO DIFFICULT TO GET OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP BUT YOU MAKE YOUR CHANGES TO FIND OUT WHO YOU WERE AND BECOME A BETTER YOU. IF THE PERSON YOU ARE WITH DON’T LIKE YOUR POSITIVE DIRECTION THEN YOU HAVE YOUR ANSWER TO WHAT YOU NEED TO DO. PRAY TILL THEY UNDERSTAND OR MOVE ON.

I KNOW A LOT OF WOMEN IN MY LIFE THAT HAVE STRUGGLES RIGHT NOW. GOD MADE YOU TO BE WHO YOU ARE. IF YOU DON’T KNOW GOD AND ARE GOING THROUGH HARD TIMES, YOU NEED HIM NOW MORE THAN EVER. GOD IS YOUR ANSWER. TRUST ME. EARLY ON IN MOST RELATIONSHIPS THIS DOES HAPPEN TO WOMEN AND SOME MEN TOO. YOU DON’T NEED TO LOSE YOURSELF TO MAN.

MATTHEW 10:39.HE THAT FINDETH HIS LIFE SHALL LOSE IT; AND HE THAT LOSETH HIS LIFE FOR MY SAKE SHALL FIND IT.

ISAIAH 41:10.SO DO NOT FEAR, FOR I AM WITH YOU; DO NOT BE DISMAYED, FOR I AM YOUR GOD. I WILL STRENGTHEN YOU AND HELP YOU; I WILL UPHOLD YOU WITH MY RIGHTEOUS RIGHT HAND.

PSALM 28:7.THE LORD IS MY STRENGTH AND MY SHIELD; MY HEART TRUSTS IN HIM, AND I AM HELPED. MY HEART LEAPS FOR JOY AND I WILL GIVE THANKS TO HIM IN SONG.

COLOSSIANS 3:2.SET YOUR MINDS ON THINGS THAT ARE ABOVE, NOT ON THINGS THAT ARE ON EARTH.

MATTHEW 6:33.BUT SEEK FIRST THE KINGDOM OF GOD AND HIS RIGHTEOUSNESS, AND ALL THESE THINGS WILL BE ADDED TO YOU.

ROMANS 8:5.FOR THOSE WHO LIVE ACCORDING TO THE FLESH SET THEIR MINDS ON THE THINGS OF THE FLESH, BUT THOSE WHO LIVE ACCORDING TO THE SPIRIT SET THEIR MINDS ON THE THINGS OF THE SPIRIT.

2 TIMOTHY 2:15.DO YOUR BEST TO PRESENT YOURSELF TO GOD AS ONE APPROVED, A WORKER WHO HAS NO NEED TO BE ASHAMED, RIGHTLY HANDLING THE WORD OF TRUTH.

1 CORINTHIANS 10:13.NO TEMPTATION HAS OVERTAKEN YOU THAT IS NOT COMMON TO MAN. GOD IS FAITHFUL, AND HE WILL NOT LET YOU BE TEMPTED BEYOND YOUR ABILITY, BUT WITH THE TEMPTATION HE WILL ALSO PROVIDE THE WAY OF ESCAPE, THAT YOU MAY BE ABLE TO ENDURE IT.

1 PETER 3:17.FOR IT IS BETTER TO SUFFER FOR DOING GOOD, IF THAT SHOULD BE GOD’S WILL, THAN FOR DOING EVIL.

TODAY MY HEART HAS BEEN HEAVY OVER A LOVED ONE THAT THESE WORDS TONIGHT IS WHAT THEY ARE GOING THROUGH. I PRAY FOR THEM AS I PRAY FOR YOU ALL OUT THERE THAT MIGHT BE IN A RELATIONSHIP THAT IS OR HAS BECOME DESTRUCTIVE. THE DESTRUCTION DOESN’T HAVE TO BE PHYSICAL TO BE DAMAGING. THE LOVING HEART TAKES LONGER TO MEND ONCE IT HAS BEEN BROKEN. WITH GOD’S HELP IT CAN MEND OR EXCEPT AND GO ON.

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